Are you overwhelmed?

Overwhelmed?

You’ve graduated high school. Congratulations! You are excited for summer, yet there is a nagging feeling of anxiety that is clouding the otherwise bright summer excitement. The college countdown is officially on! What should you do so that you can have a good summer yet also prepare for college?

It’s time to purge your closet
You’ll need some polished, internship-approved clothes, going-out items, and every day “I’m sitting in class” clothes. Get rid of the things you don’t need anymore. You can hand them down to siblings, sell them at a garage sale (and make some $$ for college), or give them to Goodwill.

Getting organized on the outside will help you be organized on the inside
You will need to pare down your possessions, as your college room that you share with one or more people probably will not be able to accommodate all of the stuff that you have in your room at home. If you begin to organize your current space now it will be that much easier as the summer comes to an end.

Update your resume
You may be applying for jobs and will need this. If your college has an equivalent of a first-year experience class they will most likely have you create one. Doing it in the summer will put you ahead of the game!

Set up your social media for your new school
If you haven’t already, start connecting with your new college friends before you get on campus.

Get informed
Surprise your professors by knowing about current events. Look into sites like The New York Times.

Spend time with your parents
As hard as it is to imagine, you may just miss them while you are away at college. Enjoy your time with them.

Connect with your new roommate
You may only be discussing who is going to bring the microwave or the rug, but this is the time to begin a, hopefully, positive relationship. The first days will be less awkward if you know something about their family and some of their likes or dislikes.

Make an appointment with your doctor
Make sure to get a physical and that all of your immunizations are up-to-date. Make sure to bring information, like the following, with you to college:

What’s your doctor’s phone number?

Where should you refill your prescriptions at school?

When should you make your next appointment?

Who should you contact if you need a doctor at school?

Get familiar with your college town
Although you have four years to know the ins and outs of your college town, do some research now. Get to know the public transportation system, restaurants, and where to get your hair cut.

Go to orientation
One of the most important parts of beginning your college career is attending Orientation. You may take placement tests, work with your advisor to register for fall classes and meet faculty, staff and other new students just like you. You will also receive valuable information on what to expect in the next few months.

Register for classes
Most orientation programs include class registration. Take a look at the requirements in advance so that you can ask questions during the registration process.

Buy your textbooks
Now that you have your classes selected, it is time to buy the cheapest textbooks. You can purchase the books at your college bookstore or search the web for deals. You may want to look at sites like Amazon, TextbooksRUs, Chegg, etc.

Get a makeover
Imagine a new look for this new chapter in your life. A new haircut and new wardrobe will begin the transformation of the new you.

Learn how to get ready, quickly
Have you ever overslept? Do you know how to get ready and to class on time? Take this summer to “train” yourself to streamline your morning routine (we will discuss the morning routine in an upcoming blog) so that mornings will be less stressful.

Take a self-defense class
Being on your own can be scary. Get trained to react in an emergency so that you can go away to college with confidence.

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

Like a champion

You want to be successful.   You’re juggling your classes, family, and friends. How are you going to be an academic champion of your life?

These five tips can help you stay become that champion:

Know your strengths — It’s human nature to want to correct weaknesses. But knowing your strengths and how to use them effectively can have a much more substantial effect on success and well-being. So how can you reframe your thinking?  One tool—the C.A.N. Academic Success Inventory can help you gauge your strengths and challenge areas. http://canstudentconsultants.com/survey.  The test allows for an objective view into where you excel and where you may need a bit work.

Set specific goals — Achieving your goals depends on how well you can manage your time.  Goal setting requires a strategic plan for the semester. Students who do better in general are the ones who take time to plan.

Prioritize happiness — Feeling good about what you’re doing and why you’re doing it is the best way to ensure success.

Be resilient — Even with a good plan, obstacles will arise. How well you deal with those obstacles depends on your perspective.  Predict you’re going to make mistakes and make alternate plans to achieve your goals.

Make time to recover — Periods of stress can be positive and motivating if they expand your perception of what’s possible, but they can lead to chronic stress when you don’t build in time to recover.  So, before you pull another all-nighter, think about the effects it may have on you the next day.  Taking breaks, setting aside time for meals, and enjoying recreation can help fuel you and keep you on course to achieve your goals and be the champion of your academic journey.

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

Three+ months until the big day!

3+ Months Until the Big Day!

It’s happening. When you started high school, college seemed a lifetime away. Now, it is a little bit more than three months away!  Whether you are anxiously dreading the summer’s end or excitedly counting down the days until your arrival at your chosen college, rest assured, you have an amazing four years ahead of you.

You will embark on an once-in a-lifetime journey that is sure to challenge and develop your already-proven capabilities and talents both academic and otherwise.Your time at college will be filled with exciting opportunities, life-changing lessons, and unforgettable experiences.

This is not to say, however, that the prospect of leaving home, choosing classes and extra-curricular activities may seem quite daunting at first. C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead. To get you started, you should make sure that you:

  1. Register for Orientation as soon as possible so you can attend the Orientation date of your choice (you must deposit before you can register for Orientation.)
  2. Apply for Financial Aid. You can do this prior to deciding where to attend, however be sure that once you decide, you have your information sent to the appropriate school. The FAFSA is free to apply. If you are asked to pay a fee, you are on the wrong site!

Apply for Financial Aid. You can do this prior to deciding where to attend, however be sure that once you decide, you have your information sent to the appropriate school. The FAFSA is free to apply. If you are asked to pay a fee, you are on the wrong site!

Listed below are blog topics that may be included on this website. These topics can also act as potential coaching topics to help you determine your challenges.

How to write an essay

How to write a professional email

How to proofread

How to study

Academic Reading

Time Management

Budget management

Self-advocacy

How to get organized

How to navigate the institution

How to become an active learner

Bridging the gap between what you know and the skills needed to be a successful college student

Setting roommate guidelines

Alleviating stress

How to find cheap textbooks

What to do if you receive a bad grade

Getting to know your professors

Problem solving

Risk taking/Resiliency

Study skills

Goal setting

Time Management

Learning style preference

Communication skills

Note taking

Academic Reading

Test taking strategies

Critical thinking

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

No Apologies

The problem is that we fall into an apology trap.  By default and habit we apologize for our performance in school to protect ourselves, so people wouldn’t think we are an underachieving person.

When you apologize for your academic performance, you’re basically saying:

I am not good enough

I’m silently keeping score of what is good enough

I put great importance on how my grades appear and maybe, when I see or hear about others’ grades I’m keeping score, too.

When we apologize for what we have it makes others feel uncomfortable, it discredits the work we have done, and it reveals the true state of our heart. Ouch.

People caught up in perfection are usually much harder on themselves than they are on others.

No apologies necessary.

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

Explore

The first time you step foot onto a college campus the beautiful terrain, historical buildings, and the thought of taking that next step in your life may distract you from researching if this college is the right fit for you.  Make sure you explore the city, check out local websites to find out how frequently the town holds events that you may be interested in, and investigate what the campus career resource office has to offer. 

Know what you are getting yourself into.  Don’t overlook other aspects of college life such as health and wellness, community and religious associations, travel costs to and from your hometown, and the climate throughout the school year.

Remember, your time at college will not only lead you toward the career you wish to pursue, but it will also help define the person you will become. Armed with your research, ambition, and hard work there will be no college town you won’t be able to make feel like home.

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

Focus

“Turn off your email; turn off your phone, disconnect from the internet; figure out a way to set limits so you can concentrate when you need to, an disengage when you need to. Technology is a good servant but a bad master.” – Gretchen Rubin

This lack of focus can have major costs for you.

Many high school and college students struggle with maintaining focus – especially on assignments that require sustained attention, like writing papers or reading textbooks.  Working while distracted can dramatically increase the amount of time you need to spend on your homework.  All this extra time spent on homework can cause you to stay up late and lose sleep…which makes it even more difficult for you to stay focused and avoid distractions the following day.

There are many reasons why you may have trouble focusing, including…

Physical factors (low energy, dehydration, etc.)

External distractions (phone, computer, siblings/parents, etc.)

Internal distractions (thoughts, worries, etc.)

Difficult or confusing task

Low motivation

No sense of urgency

Studies have shown that college students who spend more time on social media tend to spend less time studying and have lower GPAs than their peers. 

Luckily, there are quick and simple solutions that you can use to reduce distractions and increase your ability to focus! 

Here are some…

Nourish your body & refresh your brain

Work at a time of day when you naturally have more energy.

Exercise before you study.  Just 15-20 minutes of aerobic exercise can give you an immediate boost in executive function, which helps you avoid distractions and maintain focus on your work.

Drink more water!  Studies have shown that even being slightly dehydrated can have a significant impact on attention and focus.

If you’re having trouble focusing while you sit, try standing or walking while you work. Some find that they can think and focus more effectively while they’re physically active.

Take short breaks after completing each assignment, or after 30-60 minutes of focused work.  Getting up to walk around, refill your water bottle, use the bathroom, pet your dog, etc. can help reset your focus & attention.

Eliminate external distractions

Turn off or silence your electronic devices.  If you can’t turn them off, put them on silent and turn off all notifications. Block internet access for websites that tend to distract you with one of the great tools designed for this.

Try changing your location to someplace less familiar, where there are fewer potential distractions nearby.  For example – instead of your room, do your work in the library.  That may  be an awesome hiding place!

If studying in silence is distracting, try listening to ambient sounds or music

Minimize internal distractions

If your mind is racing in 100 different directions as you sit down to work, take a few minutes before you start to write down everything that’s on your mind so you can deal with it later, after your work is completed.

Keep a notepad (or a text file) nearby while you’re working, so you can quickly jot down any ideas that come to mind while working but are NOT related to the task you’re working on. Each time, remind yourself: that’s NOT what I’m doing right now.

If you’re worried about something, make a commitment to worry about it at a specific future time later in the day, and set an alarm to remind yourself so your brain can trust you enough to let it go, knowing you’ll get to it later.

Make it easy to get started

Identify the physical next step you need to take in order to make progress with your work and focus on WHAT you need to do to move things forward. For example, instead of telling yourself you need to write your essay, just focus first on finding the rubric.

Shrink the task down to something so easy that you’re 100% confident in your ability to do it successfully.  For example: commit to focus on your work for just 5 minutes, or to write just ONE paragraph, and then give yourself a break.

Reduce performance pressure. For example: Instead of trying to write a “good” essay, start by creating a rough first draft.

Increase your motivation

Create a reward, or incentive, for yourself by planning a specific, fun activity you will do as soon as you finish your work.

Focus on how good you will feel as soon as you have completed it, or about how much better you will do on your next test. 

Increase the time pressure

Reduce the total amount of time you have available to do the work, by creating constraints that require you to finish your work at a particular time.

Instead of setting aside 3 hours for homework, divide your work into shorter intervals and give yourself a deadline for each task. 

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

A time and a place for everything

I want you to think about the reason you want to throw your hands up in surrender and give up. You probably like some of your classes but wish that were true of the amount of work you have to do for them! Do you feel like you can’t put your hands on your notes for this class or that?  Did you misplace that gift card you got for your birthday?  Do you cringe when you enter your room, because the clutter stresses you out?  Is your desk a crazy mess?

If you’re in the same boat as most of us, here are a few things to get you started in dealing with the stressful week and how to continue to manage it.  The easiest fix for your desk problem is to clean off your desk!  Its hard enough that you have to have a desk in your bedroom, because if it is not neat it will remind you of the things you have not done. The piles of papers are going to make you feel uneasy and mess with your sleep. So don’t do this to yourself.

It is time for you to get your desk cleaned off! Here is how to do this!  Do you ever run into the problem of knowing what you are looking for is on your desk someplace? There are so many papers on your desk that it takes forever to sort or plow through them to find the one thing you are looking for. Then your whole piling system LOL is destroyed in just a few minutes of frantic searching.

It is time to stop living this way! In order to accomplish this we need to get your desk cleaned off! It has been your catch; your mail dumping ground. Most of what is on your desk is trash!

Go get a trash can and three boxes. Use your timer and work fast! Take breaks!

Place a trash bag in the trash can!

Label boxes LEFT, RIGHT, CENTER

Take everything off the left side of your desk and put in box

Take everything off the right side of your desk and put in box

Take everything off the center of your desk and put in box

Stand back and look at your clean desk! Wipe it off.

Put the Left Box on the desk and start getting rid of trash real fast

Put the papers you need to keep back in the left box.

Do the same thing with the Center and Right box.

With the trash gone all that is left is important papers

Combine all important papers into one box. Label IMPORTANT

Empty Trash Can.

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

You’ve graduated….now what?

If fear and uncertainty is clouding the feelings of excitement and anticipation for this new chapter (college) of your life, you are not alone. 

As more and more college campuses close and learning goes online, it raises significant concerns for new students about what this summer and the fall semester will look like for them.

The virus is preventing new college students from participating in campus visits, standardized testing, and meeting their college peers.  This uncertainty that is flooding the country is seeping into students’ lives and multiplying the fear of their transition from high school to college life.

While this is understandable, you will need to put this aside and decide right here and now that regardless of what the world is dealing with, you will meet these challenges and succeed in spite of them.  These circumstances will shape you into who you will become.  Years from now, you will be able to say that you not only survived a pandemic but you had the most unique high school and college experience than any other generation!

You will not only get through this, but you will succeed.  We are all in this situation to help one another. 

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

Get a grip

You made it! You worked hard, got admitted to college and graduated from high school. But now what?  Here are a few words of advice to prepare you for the next stage of your academic journey: college.

Get Purpose, Build Relationships, Discover Your Identity, and Plan Your Work and Work Your Plan!

  1. Get a Purpose.  Researchers have shown that students who have high aspirations do better academically, seek out opportunities for professional and personal growth and take full advantage of what their college has to offer. What’s your goal? To be successful, set a goal to finish strong, and develop a sense of purpose for your college years. Once you do, you’ll feel like you’re flying with a strong tailwind. It’ll also help you avoid distractions, which will be many in college.
  2. Build Relationships. College and life were not intended to be a lonely journey. Research has found that the students who were most successful in college had two types of relationships: 1) good relationships with their faculty and administrators; and 2) they were engaged on campus and had a strong peer network. To be successful in college…and in life, you have to build relationships in both dimensions.
  3. Discover Your Identity. If someone asked you to complete the sentence, “I am _____,” what would you say? Probably your name, right? That’s how most of us would respond. But what if you couldn’t use your name? What attributes would you highlight?
  4. Plan, Plan, Plan. Another thing that separates the exceptional students from all others is their ability to plan — by the semester, by the week and by the day. Planning your work and working your plan are essential to success in college…and in life.

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/

You have the power

I can give you the road map, but you have to drive the car.  You are responsible for 100% of your life.  We have been conditioned to blame something outside of ourselves for the parts of our life we don’t like.  We need to start saying to ourselves, “I have created my current conditions and can uncreate and re-create them.”

You need to stop looking outside of yourself for the answers as to why you don’t have what you want.  You have control over three things:

  1. Thoughts that you think
  2. Images that you visualize
  3. Actions that you take

You can either create or allow everything to happen to you.  In order to find your purpose consider this:

Make a list of times you have felt most joyful and alive (what are the common elements of these experiences?  Can you figure out a way to make a living doing these things?)

Create a compelling statement of your life purpose to guide and direct your behavior

Read your life purpose every day

Once you decide what you want, you have to decide how to get it.  Don’t live someone else’s dreams.  Don’t settle for less than you want. 

C.A.N. is here for you to ensure that you are up to the challenges that lay ahead.  If you would like to discuss the transition to college and how C.A.N. can be of assistance, please fill out the contact us page on our website. http://www.canstudentconsultants.com/